Last October, when I was in court in Southern California, opposing counsel and I were listening to another case, while waiting for the judge to call ours. The judge asked the respondent, a young man, why he had not paid his child support. He hemmed and hawed and finally muttered, "I gotta take care of my other kids." Opposing counsel could not hold it in and said in a loud voice, "Oh my God." I have no doubt he would react the same to this.