Now, this song does not have an official video, but I found this snippet on YouTube that someone had done.
The song is "All My Little Words" by the group The Magnetic Fields. I first heard this song as "bumper" music on the TV series, "The Shield" - specifically, it was Season 1 and the episode was "Psycho and Cupid." The song speaks to me not of lost love, but lost love with revenge in mind. I like the unusual banjo playing on this - you don't often hear that instrument outside of more traditional genres, like bluegrass.